Posted by
Blue Collar Muse on Wednesday, November 28, 2007 8:10:49 AM
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This Thanksgiving season, I think I've come to a conclusion and am turning over a new leaf. Some, once they hear what it is, will no doubt ask me "What took you so long?" All I can say is that I guess I just needed to see things from a different perspective. In this case, that perspective was provided by my second child and oldest daughter, known here at BCM as "The Redhead".
I don't particularly care for "chick flicks". The Much Younger Trophy Wife, given a choice, would watch nothing but movies from a lady's point of view. Fortunately for me, The Redhead shares my interest in movies where things explode, bad guys are felled in a wild hail of bullets, foes are pummeled into submission in a flurry of martial arts mania or are diced into a cinematic version of raw fish at your local Sakura! Usually, one of my closest friends is the one to accompany me on my quests to satisfy my macho movie mania. When he's unavailable, The Redhead makes a great substitute. Not only do I get my movie, I get some daddy-daughter time as well. This was one of those times.
We went to see a movie I've been waiting to see since I first saw the trailer months ago - "Hitman". For the most part, the movie was everything I wanted it to be. But watching it and discussing it on the way home with the The Redhead, it has likely proven to be something else that I didn't anticipate - the last straw.
You see, smack dab in the middle of the movie, for no purpose necessary to the plot or scene, a woman sashays across the screen topless. The purpose of the walk seems to be to set up the line "It's not polite to stare." A moment later she walks back across the room, this time to introduce the line, "Get dressed, we're going to dinner." In a final scene a few minutes later, she tries to seduce the protagonist and straddles him topless.
Discussing the movie on the way home, The Redhead and I couldn't talk about anything other than why the moviemakers chose to include those three scenes. There was simply no need to include the first two and a dozen ways to have portrayed the final scene that didn't involve nudity. Our final conclusion as to their motivation for using the footage? Because they can!
Movies aren't the only cinematic pastime our family enjoys. There are several TV shows that we watch regularly together or TIVO and watch later. Shows like NCIS, The Unit, and Numb3rs. It would be nice to be able to say that the fascination with sexuality, especially of the illicit variety, was limited to the movies. That way, only those choosing to attend the movie would be exposed. That way, there would be no chance of a child accidentally sitting down and turning on something a parent might find objectionable. Like I said, it would be nice.
Over the last couple of seasons, The Much Younger Trophy Wife and I have noticed what, for us, has been a disturbing trend in TV programming. Far and away our favorite show has been 'The Unit' which is the story of an elite US Army SpecOps unit that operates all over the world. It portrays our military as capable, competent and human. For the last couple of seasons, however, it has also portrayed them as addicted to adultery. Totally unnecessary to the flow of the show; at odds with the reality of the military, and; offered up as a stereotypical handout in place of a real subplot involving the show's women - this subplot has generated a couple of letters from The Much Younger Trophy Wife to the network requesting that they finally put that storyline to bed - pun intended. So far, their response has been nonexistent and the adultery subplot continues - again - because they can.
This year, there's a new series out, 'Cane', starring perennial fan favorite Jimmy Smits. It's the story of Cuban immigrants who make it big in the rum business in Florida and owe much of their success to owning the sugar cane fields from which their product literally flows. This has been a show that, for a variety of reasons, only I have watched. It appeals to me on a number of levels. It is well written and acted. The music is spectacular if you enjoy tunes from the Caribbean. It's great to see a drama featuring Hispanics and not just stereotypical sitcoms.
But the theme of sex has been omnipresent in 'Cane'. On more than one occasion in this first season there have been bedroom scenes that belong in movies and not on TV. This last week was the worst. Not only was there a scene where a man clearly had his hand on a woman's breast but it was followed up with a foreplay scene that might as well have been from an 'R' rated big screen offering. Again, none of this was integral to the plot of the show. Not in the least. Why was it included? At the risk of sounding like a broken record ... because they can.
As part of our conversation about 'Hitman' I asked The Redhead why she thought the filmmakers put those scenes in since they were clearly unneeded. She responded with the opinion that perhaps those who don't appreciate such scenes were not vocal enough or clear enough in their objection. Perhaps filmmakers believed their audience needed such scenes to continue to watch. I shared with her that her mom and I had been frustrated enough to write letters and complain and that it seemed to do little good. She shrugged and we finished up the trip home talking about other things.
But I've not been able to get the issue out of my mind. More to the point, I've not been able to get it out of my heart. And I've tried to find a response that would communicate to filmmakers my displeasure and my desire for good films devoid of debauchery. I think I've done all I can to let them know how I feel. They don't seem to care. But if I continue to support their efforts what message am I sending to The Redhead and the rest of my family and friends? Thus, regrettably, I've come to the conclusion that the only course of action left to me is to stop my participation in the process. I'll not be going to the movies anywhere close to as often as I have been and will be paying much closer attention to the ratings of those films I choose to see. And I'll be turning off the tube more as well.
Because I have a my family to think of. Because I have my values to consider. Because I can ...
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